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The journaling and scrapbooking techniques taught in this course provide a creative way to connect with the inner self and heal emotional wounds while documenting your story, your life in a fun and unique way. Be guided to build a foundation for writing for life.

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Virtual Book Tour

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 29, 2009

VBT Secrets “Preview Trainings”

Please mark your calendar for July 2nd and the preview call by Alex Mandossian.

That day, Alex will share why “every business is an information marketing
business” … regardless of your expertise.

Q:  “Do you own a business card?”
 
Q:  “Do you have a website or blog?”
 
Q:  “Do you maintain voice mail?”
 
Q:  “Do you send thank you letters?”

If  you answered YES to any of the four questions above, then you *ARE* in the info marketing business. Writers and artists must do more then create art we also must be able to market ourselves successfully.

On July 2nd, I’m inviting you to find out how to grow your info marketing
business faster, better and easier.

Here’s the access link, please click it: VBT PREVIEW CALL

Speak to you soon,


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When Fame Fails

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 28, 2009

fallen flowers

This week has seen the sad passing of three people who have achieved fame in different ways. Ed McMahon was known as the faithful sidekick to Johnny Carson. His career brought him fame but not the mega stardom of others. Farrah Fawcett was known as the blond bombshell who left behind a plum role on Charlie’s Angels to carve out her own unique career path. Michael Jackson is recognized as a child prodigy who took his talents and left his family behind to create his own bright star. Each became an icon their own way. But their fame did not guarantee an easy life. They suffered with poor health, relationship issues and money woes.

Most of us would like acknowledgment for our hard work. We would like to know our efforts mean something and we’ll be rewarded. The allure of fame is the promise of an easy life. It becomes this gift we seek to open.

We can spend endless hours watching the specials about the three people lost this week. But we can’t know what was in their hearts. We don’t know what they regretted or were thankful for in their final hours. Despite fame they ended life in the same way we all will.

Fame is something we may seek,providing us with access to people, places and things that can make success all the more sweeter. Fame fails when it becomes the thing that defines us. Lives can get tangled up in talent and torment. It becomes hard to know one from the other. Fame becomes a burden not a pleasure.

Each of then left behind a legacy of their work. I also learned how kind and giving Ed was, how brave and adventurous Farrah was and how Michael was unique and trendsetting. They pushed past obstacles, achieved success and lived the best way they could. Besides their talents I would say they left behind something more tangible and important. They used their gifts and shared them with us. They each took chances. We could debate the mental and spiritual health brought about because of their fame, but we can’t deny a degree of moxie. They didn’t hide; even the fragile Michael came out into the spotlight.

There is this convulsive grief that occurs when a celebrity dies. We have come to depend on them in an odd way. We explore our talents and fear through them instead of developing our own.

We long for our own fame but are afraid. Celebrities pave the road for us. In our own lives we may only achieve modest fame. We honor our gifts when share them with others. We can recognize fame won’t save us from death and try to live our best kind of life. At the end we can leave behind an honorable legacy of well used talent.


Sandra’s e-course leads people to be their creative best through telling their stories and talking to interesting people on her online radio show-Wild Woman Network: Radio for Creative Vagabonds,Thinkers and Innovators.

She is a creative vagabond, a poet, and a writer who co-facilitates the Wild Angels Poets and Writers Group at the historic Cathedral Church of Saint John the Divine. Her ecourse leads people to tell their life story-Writing for Life: Creating a Story of Your Own.

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Make one million dollars online, today, right now.

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 15, 2009

Telling our stories

Telling our stories

Browsing the Twitter stream I clicked on an article someone was reading about social media charlatans in the online edition of PC World.  Let me admit this up front- I have listed myself as a social media coach on my new business card. Despite the title of this post I promise nothing in terms of money, success, media coverage in my coaching. What made me decide to create this as part of my profile? It was relatively easy. My friends kept asking me for advice. I can sit with you, outline your needs and suggest some possible sites for you. My skill is not so much that I am an expert on things, but, I am a decent facilitator of information.

The ability to point people in the right direction is a skill not to be overlooked. I would never suggest anyone could make lots of money online. Because I have not made a lot of money. There are people who seem to do quite well- I would point you towards them. Do your own research.

What I do online is make friends and talk to people. Occassionally I promote things; my show, an affiliate link or two, a product. Sometimes I post my blogs. I like being here.

I have noticed some new things about Twitter-my private messages are full of people telling me how they can help me get a lot of followers on Twitter and increase my income. Really? If you asked me right now I could not tell you have many followers I have. I could not tell you if my all followers have value or not. I automate part of my Twitter stream and then I follow people who I find interesting as I find them.

The experts may tell me I am doing it all wrong. The online and real world is full of people trying to make a living. Some of us have good intentions, others are out to make a quick buck. As always, we may be victims or victors of some one’s advice. We take our chances. I take mine.

If you are trying to figure all this stuff out then I suggest to do it slowly. Pick something to test out. Sign up for Twitter and just observe what people are saying. Jump in to the conversation when it feels right. Read blogs. Follow people if you like what they have to say. This is just common sense advice- you can find it anywhere for free.

I am no expert but I do have some people you should meet.

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Final Thoughts on BEA 09

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 8, 2009

Book Promotion BEA Style 09

Book Promotion BEA Style 09

It is amazing how much there is to write about one expo. I know that I didn’t use BEA to my best advantage.  Going in I was not certain how I wanted to represent myself.  Did I want to be press, author or publisher? All of these are hats I wear in one way or the other. But press was my easiest access into the Expo and it allowed me freedom in meeting authors and chatting with publishers. I do want my version of a media empire. Given the tools offered now this vision is entirely possible. I consider myself a creative person with multiple interests.

There are many writers I know who don’t have one clue about the publishing world. They fully believe they will be discovered at the counter of a soda fountain, sipping a shake, with their novel in their back pocket. They can’t use the computer, email or up/download anything. They don’t know a blog from a cog in a wheel. Never mind tools like Twitter, Facebook or Linkedin.  They will dutifully write and wish for publication and never submit somewhere because the can’t use the Internet.

I understand there are people who operate successfully off the grid. They are happy people and will never read this post. But, if a writer wants publication in the mainstream world now is the time to get a grasp on some basic technology and learn to upload a manuscript and see what the world has to say about your work.

Sandra & David - Be The Media

Sandra & David - Be The Media

Which brings me back to BEA and meeting one of the guests on my radio show. David Mathison has a wonderful self-published book called, Be The Media: How to Create and Accelerate Your Message…Your Way.  It is over 500 pages long and full of information for every kind of artist, musician, writer, filmmaker….

Be the Media is for anyone who wants to harness technology to spread his or her message or products inexpensively, whether to a global or a local audience. David Mathison

There is a lot of information in this book. GET IT NOW. Especially if you want to build your empire strategically and successfully. You want people, like David, on your side. You want to follow and read about people like Gary Vaynerchuk and Chris Brogan who have real value to offer you.

Unless you have a patron, creating is the first step, and then doing the promotional hustle is necessary to succeed. If someone told you creating is easy- they were lying. I don’t know of anyone who finds writing a book, painting a portrait, or any other creative act, a walk in the park. It can be fun, exciting, thrilling, gut-wrenching and damn scary, but it’s work. Creating, in any form, will kick you out of bed in the morning, drive you to drink a little, and make your heart beat a bit faster.

Here is my interview with David: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/SandraLeeSchubert/2009/04/07/Wild-Woman-Network-Radio

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Meeting Gary Vaynerchuk at BEA 09

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 5, 2009

My first excursion to BEA was exhausting, exciting and enlightening. If you love books, and I do, then being in a space with thousands of books, publishers, authors is having a serious case of sugar overload.

Saturday, I was better rested, and prepared. I ate a big breakfast, brought my own cheaper lunch and kept my breath mints handy. My goal was to pick up books, engage some publishers, and meet some authors I would like to interview.
Most people heard of elevator pitches The idea is you have to tell somebody, who you are, what you do, and why they would be interested in you or your product as you ride in the elevator with them. You have anywhere from 15 seconds to a minute (at most) to engage the person. The fun thing at the BEA expo was to create my pitch on the go. I modified it as I visited the hundreds of exhibits. By the end of the day I saw someone I wanted to meet and I was able to go right up to them and in 10 seconds they had my business card and a handshake agreement to be a guest on my show.

I met Kim Dushinski on Saturday when she signed her book, The Mobile Marketing Handbook: A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Dynamic Mobile Marketing Campaigns. My learn list included mobile marketing. The book fell into my hands like a gift from above. OK, I was happy.

The thing about expo’s or conventions is that nothing you want to see next is on the same floor. Kim’s book signing was in the back and lower level and I had to meet someone upstairs on the other end of the Javits Center. I think I made 10,000 steps that day. I had ten minutes with my friend and one minute to take a photo with David Mathison of Be The Media (more about him tomorrow) and then I had to run all the way to the opposite side of the convention center on the lower level.

I heard lots of Twitter conversations. Sterling Books, http://twitter.com/SterlingBooks, is a good example of a brand using Twitter to build relationship, mixing casual conversation with value. I heard multiple conversations around convention about Gary Vaynerchuk’s talk at two on Saturday.

Gary Vee says hello

When I ran down to hear Gary Vaynerchuk I had learned from my missed connection with Chris Brogan. Gary was up in front chatting with someone and I went right up to Gary said hello, give out my card and ask him to be a guest on my show. The fun moment came when Gary said he saw my tweet that morning and liked my logo. The one problem with social media Twitter and other platforms is that occasional feel of disconnection. You don’t always know if you are being heard. Sometimes you say hello and hear nothing back. There is a satisfaction knowing someone has heard you in a crowded landscape.

Like Chris Brogan, Gary is a down to earth approachable guy. Again he seems truly interested in meeting people. I am posting the video of Gary’s talk here > Gary’s talk . You will get more from hearing him then my synopsis of his talk.

There was some pleasure in learning from my mistake and saying hello to Gary. Even if he had not seen my Tweet about the BEA, I had made some kind of connection. This non-drinker can relate to Gary’s message of following your passion. I would love 10% of his energy and enthusiasm. Gary’s book can preordered here Crush It!: Why NOW Is the Time to Cash In on Your Passion.

Part of this elevator pitch thing is being authentic. You may only have seconds to say something you don’t have to be cold, it can be warm and friendly. I had quite a few nice conversations after my pitch with authors and publishers.

Tomorrow: Be the Media and meeting someone through Twitter.

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Chris Brogan and a missed opportunity at BEA 09

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 4, 2009

Friday at the Book Expo 09 was exploratory and exhausting. I was going to attend a couple of workshops, say hi to a couple of friends and get the lay of the expo land. The first workshop was a panel discussion about e-publishing with Mark Coker of Smashwords. Mark was a guest on my show and we had a lively conversation about authors taking charge of their own work. I missed the beginning and end of the panel, but, the conversation was wrapped around how the written word was moving from just a hard copy printed version to include electronic versions.

I know that book lovers mourn the potential loss of held in the hand work. I don’t think we will see the end of printed on paper books, but it will be streamlined and more concise. I also think the rise of smaller print run books will take off. The environment is now lending itself to more and more people who are able to write and print their own books. The computer is now a printing press without the messy ink and plates to muck up our hands. Your Aunt Sue can write her novella about nursing soldiers during WWII and ten people or one hundred can order it online. But Aunt Sue can also get her book uploaded to her families cell phones. Her story may have ended at the family dinner table with her, but now it can continue and reach a broader audience.

My next stop was to hear Chris Brogan talk about being a trust agent, I had met Chris at a tweetup The Roger Smith Hotel in NYC. At that time I didn’t really know who he was. He was just a guy on Twitter who mentioned a tweetup in NY. I knew he had a twitter following but not much more. When I attended the tweetup someone reverently said, “there’s Chris”, at that point I realized I should pay attention. Chris made sure to meet and spend time with each of us at the tweetup. It was not forced. I felt that he was interested in finding out who was in the room with him.

At BEA Chris was in front of the room setting up and I had the thought I should go up and say hi and remind him where we met. I had no expectation that he would remember me. But the opportunity to say hi was there and I did not take it. Later he was signing galley’s of his book but the line was long and I was hungry. I did pick up a book and read it at lunch.

At the end of the day it may not mean much of anything that I didn’t say hello. But the point is I will never know what might have happened from the interaction. When I first met Chris I didn’t know much about him. I did my research and followed his blog and tweets and have become a loyal follower because of what I have read and observed. It was that in-person meeting that made me think I need to pay better attention to this guy. He might have been just a tweet in a vast stream of twitterers, now he is in my group of interesting people to follow.

Chris Brogan at BEA09

I can’t compare myself to Chris. It’s like apples and oranges and I am the unsprouted fruit. I don’t know if I have anything of value to offer him. Maybe that doesn’t matter. I have been reading a book about increasing your luck. The people who call themselves lucky are the ones who take chances and talk to everyone regardless of the possible value of the interaction. I don’t can’t predict the outcome of any interaction. I have been pleasantly surprised when I have taken a chance and I regret not taking the opportunity presented to me.

At the end of the day I have to reach out and see what the possibility might be in each interaction. It is up to me to create my own value.

Here is the presentation Chris gave at BEA- http://www.chrisbrogan.com/publishers-and-social-media/ His book , Trust Agents: Using the Web to Build Influence, Improve Reputation, and Earn Trust is good. I have the uncorrected galley the book is published in August 2009.

Tomorrow: Taking my chance- Shaking hands with Gary Vaynerchuk.

Here is my smashwords ebook: http://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/SandraLeeSchubert

Here is my interview w. Mark Coker of Smashwords: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/SandraLeeSchubert/2009/04/28/Wild-Woman-Network-Radio

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Book Expo America 2009 pt. 1

By Sandra Lee Schubert | June 3, 2009

This was my first book expo. My radio guest, Dan Poynter of The Self-Publishing Manual, said I should go as press. I did. The keynote speech featured Clarence Clemmons of the E Street band, and Steven Tyler. BEA has the keynote guests sit in nice comfy chairs in this informal interview format. Clarence was an affable, friendly person who shared some of the things he wrote about in his new book. He shared a story about Robert DeNiro and the movie Taxi Driver. The famous scene where DeNiro’s character is in the mirror asking, “Are you looking at me?” comes from seeing a Bruce Springsteen concert. Apparently Springsteen would play with his audience by asking them that very same question. Who knew?

Steven Tyler

Steven Tyler

Steven Tyler of AeroSmith fame was the next on keynote agenda. Steven was every bit the rock star: flamboyant in style, and laid back in temperament. He had this cosmic sensibility, asking, “Are you dreaming the dream or is the dream, dreaming you?”

Clarence and Steven have played in famous bands for many years. Yet, they were down to earth and accessible in sharing their stories.

Next up: What I learned by not saying hello to Chris Brogan.

Dan Poynter’s Self-Publishing Manual, 16th Edition: How to Write, Print and Sell Your Own Book (Self Publishing Manual)

Taxi Driver (Two-Disc Collector’s Edition)

Walk This Way: The Autobiography of Aerosmith

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The Stardust Factor

By Sandra Lee Schubert | May 27, 2009

The Stardust Factor

Rick Butts and The Stardust Factor

Rick Butts and The Stardust Factor

“The Nearly Mystical Power That Fame Effects on the Observer”

***SPECIAL SHOW*** Wednesday, May 27, 2009, 3 PM EST

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sandraleeschubert

Discovering and leveraging your own personal Stardust Power to create a powerful and profitable persona for you and your business.

Problem: It is extremely hard to stand out in a noisy marketplace -doubly so on Twitter and Social Media.

Implication: If you don’t stand out - you can’t attract clients - and will be forced to sell on the worst possible criteria - price.


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Sandra Lee Schubert © All Rights Reserved, 2009

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What do Miss California and Susan Boyle have in common?

By Sandra Lee Schubert | May 14, 2009

First of all they were both in competitions. Carrie and Susan entered competitions hoping to win a prize. Miss Prejean did not win. The jury is still out about whether Susan will win. Neither could have known the firestorm that would erupt when they took to the stage.

Before they became public figures most of the world did know who they were. Did they intend to create controversy? No. They were both thrust into maelstrom that was created by what they said and what they looked like.

But do we know who they are? The media storm that surrounds both, forces them into becoming spokespeople for platforms they didn’t originally sign up. Susan, who is not considered traditionally beautiful, broke through that barrier and demonstrated her beauty through talent and personality. People want her to stay the same and become the model for the average looking woman.

Carrie, on the other hand is considered beautiful, and because of a question asked at a competition became the spokesperson for traditional marriage. Unlike Susan, she seems willing, at this moment, to take on that cause. But what if they change their minds?

Both Carrie and Susan will have to decide what is their true story, and what message they want to give to the world. Rick Butts, of The Stardust Factor, says to “create an authentic identity”.

It is tempting to go with the flow and become what family, friends and society say should be your identity.

At the end, going against who you really want to be, is a slow soul sucking death. When we get on our own personal stage it is up to us to tell our unique story. Don’t be the message bearer for someone else’s agenda. And remember you can change your mind as you grow, and evolve who you are.


Create Your Own Story Now!


Susan Boyle
Carrie Prejean

Carrie Prejean

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Mother’s Day Proclamation

By Sandra Lee Schubert | May 9, 2009

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The “Mother’s Day Proclamation” by Julia Ward Howe was one of the early calls to celebrate Mother’s Day in the United States. Written in 1870, Howe’s Mother’s Day Proclamation was a pacifist reaction to the carnage of the American Civil War and the Franco-Prussian War. The Proclamation was tied to Howe’s feminist belief that women had a responsibility to shape their societies at the political level.

Today, the proclamation is included in the Unitarian Universalist hymnal, Singing the Living Tradition.

Mother’s Day Proclamation

Arise, then, women of this day!
Arise, all women who have hearts,
Whether our baptism be of water or of tears!

Say firmly:
“We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies,
Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause.
Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn
All that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.
We, the women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country
To allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs.”

From the bosom of the devastated Earth a voice goes up with our own.
It says: “Disarm! Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice.”
Blood does not wipe out dishonor, nor violence indicate possession.
As men have often forsaken the plough and the anvil at the summons of war,
Let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel.

Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.
Let them solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means
Whereby the great human family can live in peace,
Each bearing after his own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar,
But of God.

In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask
That a general congress of women without limit of nationality
May be appointed and held at someplace deemed most convenient
And at the earliest period consistent with its objects,
To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,
The amicable settlement of international questions,
The great and general interests of peace.

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